Relationships. Ever wonder what happens if u have a relationship at this age. All of us thought of having wonderful bf or gf, a perfect relationship that will last forever. Who doesn't want it? But at this age, this era, where pple put the word "breakup" so easily on their lips, is it really possible to have a longlasting relationship? Is the relationship u had able to withstand time and all conflicts just like ur parents' one? (iam saying most parents here btw, no offense to anyone)

Iam not saying that iam not interested in having a relationship, of course i want one. But the issue here is whether we are mature to handle it or not? The maturity to understand what we want to get in a relationship. Most pple will say happiness, but to our parents or pple in the older generation, it is for happiness of course but also starting a family. Have we given any thought to the issue of starting a family? Getting marry and stuff? Esp. at this age, are we able to handle such issues?

Iam not getting emo or what, just a thought abt why are we human beings thinking of having relationships at this age when we are still not matured enough to handle it. Its like asking a 2 yr old kid to play winning 11. Get it? no? Ok, what iam saying is that love is something for adults, not for us. The rules are complicated, only people who truly understand and know what they want is able to handle it. Pls stop saying those things like, "when iam with u, i wanna forget everything" or "i wanna be with u forever", how many of u actually practise what uve preach?

How many relationships does it take one to know that at such age, love is just not the thing for us. Ok, enough of my thoughts. Iam just curious, why is it that we keep wanting relationship even though we are like so immature about this thing called "love". Ima not denying that i want one relationship. But ive seen enough of examples of immature handling of relationships. Relationships is a serious thing, it is not a fantasy of ur bf being the prince and gf being the princess and both of u live in a castle forever happliy or whatsoever. Face the truth, most relationships end up in breakup in our generation.

Sorry if i made some of u feel so not hopeful or whatsoever. Its just my thoughts on relationship. And again i elaborate, i definitely wanna have a relationship but the point iam trying to make is that are we mature enough to handle it or not?

Couples, pls ignore this post if what u think iam saying is crap, its just my thoughts based on MY assumptions of issues of relationship. Ok, quite a long post huh, iam damn shagged. Gonna catch some sleep. Ciao.

----> i know iam contradicting myself in this post, but the fact remains, i wanna be the one u see every morning when u wake up.<-----

am i being immature here?